The science of yes-but-and I am observing two forces a lot of people are driven by but not a lot of people admit: Judgement and Competition. And when we look at our education system - school is where you learn for life, right? - we look at a system of categories and marks. Later, in corporate life, we look at KPIs and reviews.
We are a social system of boxes, comparison and judgement.
Even our UBERs are rated, our AirBnBs and our eBays: I commit to do business with you, beca